From Gretchen M. (any many others)
How
are you feeling?
I have been feeling
great. I have been feeling the prayers from everyone and it has been such a great
help. I know the Lord has great plans for using this to open doors to others in
need. As I look at it, it’s just another “mountain” to overcome (with God’s
help) and will add a new chapter to my testimony.
From Tara B.
How are you holding up? I think I
am doing well but I am starting to really miss work. I am sure once all the sicknesses
stop flying around like crazy I will be jumping to get back.
What is your take on going through this? I
know God has great plans for me. I am already seeing doors that my life can now
open. First it was my life as a Sp.Ed kid & now being a Cancer Mommy I am
able to relate to people in ways other are not able to.
How is Aiden doing? He knows
things are “not right/normal” & we have found that if I don’t take him to
school (like normal) he has a really hard time the rest of the day. His teachers
have noted that at some times he has focusing problems & they are worried he
will not be ready for kindergarten. Luckily we had already talked about holding him back one more year so his teachers were really happy to hear that. Other than the smallish school setbacks he really
loves the extra Cartoon Mommy time. We plan to show him the Chemo area on my
last Chemo day, that way he can be part of the party (trust me you will all be
invited to stop by) and to help put his mind at ease.
How are you doing with being a wife and
mother and going through this? I have my good days & bad days. It’s a
good thing I know this will be done soon. Also I think it's going to get harder
before it gets easier because of the amount of stuff I have/will have to give
up: aka my hair, not being at church & Awana ever week, doing normal
cleaning, & cooking, plus normal wife/Mommy things.
Is there anything you need, would
like? A Laptop that does not over heat every 10 mins (then shuts off) &
a space bar that works J
Ok not really but this post would happen a lot quicker if these two things were
not happening. Something that would be really help full is Pre- put together
dinners/lunches, so that on the days when I am not feeling super great we can
have an easy meal. Aiden’s meals are the easiest to make (he really only likes
5 things) but I find cooking for Chris & I can be the hardest sometimes.
Also I think just having great friends like you all to talk to when I am
sad/feeling down. Most import is prays you all have said for our family (not
just for me but for everyone) This past holiday season was the hardest my whole
family has had to live though (Medical “problems” hit almost every generation
this year, something would never wish on any family & something pray we
never have to deal with again), truly that is the most important thing.
What has been the hardest thing for
you? One of the hardest things for me (that might shock a few of you) is choosing
to be positive, and mostly around Aiden.
I have notice that when I am not in such a great mood it seems
to go downhill & sadly Aiden is getting the blunt of it. But I have found
if I get lots of rest it’s easier to choose to be positive. I guess one of the
side effects of the drugs is mood swings, so I guess that would affect that,
but if I choose to be happy & positive it’s all good. Also the lack of joy
when shopping, it’s really odd not to enjoy shopping (yes this is good for the
bank account) but when I need to go get something it’s no fun to force myself
to go & get it. I am guessing this is happening because I am afraid to pick
a sickness up but other times it’s due to getting tired & over heating so
fast that I can’t enjoy myself I have to make sure I get what I need before
running out of steam…where is the fun in that?
What do
you wish everyone would know or understand about you, or the what you are going
through right now? Oh that’s a good one. Truly I just want to let everyone
know I will be fine & this is just a temp thing, should all be said &
done before Aiden turns 5. I will be back to my normal self soon. Also don’t
feel bad for asking how I am doing I enjoy talking to everyone about what I am
going though and talking about myself & My family, really who doesn’t like
talking about themselves.
From Rochelle H.
Have you tried the cookie dough oreos??
No but I plan to once I see them in the store it looks super good, the other
new one would be a big NO but the cookie dough looks great.
Is there anything you crave while you are
going through chemo? Either liquid or food? Or do you have no appetite? Not
really “craving” I mean there are food I could eat more often. BUT on the other
hand I am unable to eat food (or else I will get sick or it just taste gross) I used to love like anything breaded (aka
chicken nuggets & things like that), more than 3 French fries (this makes
running though that drive thru “super fun” J
but this has helped BIG Time with the weight loss) , Orange juice, most pops (other than root beer, sprite, & natural
black cherry), a lot of apples or
anything with apples in it like Apple juice, applesauce & such. Ya talk about odd foods to not like anymore.
Who is your favorite person that lives in
Grand Forks, ND? Gee I don’t know I why you would ever ask this one ;)
From Lori H.
You mentioned being tired. What is the
cause? The cancer or chemo? Is it something in the chemo? Mostly I was
tired due to the lack of sleep the nights before & to pure boredom. You can
only watch so much TV before getting sleepy. I normally don’t feel Chemo tired effects until 3 days after chemo.
From Nicole C.
Does it hurt
when they put the needle into the chest port? Can you tell that it is there if
you aren't thinking about it? My Port has a Love Hate relationship with the
RNs down at the U, truly I feel sorry for them. Since getting my port put in I
have lost over 30lbs (yippy) but that means the port has moved & not in a “easy
to get to spot” I have told every RN that my post is hard to get to, some head
my warning and can get it first try and some don’t. The once that don’t normally
have to post me more than once witch can hurt after a little bit but really it’s
a lot less painful then when getting a IV. If you ever are in the spot that you
can get a port (I pray you never are) get one it makes getting blood work &
all that so much easier. The craziest
thing about having a port is when they have to check for a blood return or to
flush it with the Saline I can taste it right away and it’s a super gross metal
taste, this is where my candy cane pop drops come in great handy. Another thing
is sometimes when Aiden forgets he has to be careful around me & he will
lean right on the port or on the catheter (that connects the port to my vain,
it’s on the side of my neck) & send me screaming (ok not really screaming
but yelling to get him off quickly) this is normally followed by him crying
& saying how sorry he is and that just makes me feel bad. Aiden recovers
quickly with some hugs & guess what else…. Cartoons. When this is all said
& done I think Aiden is going to suffer from a lack or cartoons with Mommy,
do you think there is a 12 step program to help him with this small addiction?
Please keep the question
coming it helps a lot to know what to write in this blog